French Polynesia

The Society Islands

French Polynesia: our weeks on four gorgeous islands complete with plenty of snorkelling, rays and sharks, tropical downpours, friendly locals and delicious poisson cru!

Travel to Tahiti

Lessons learned

1. Do not panic-buy massive sunscreens at a US Target because you think it will be expensive in French Polynesia. You wlll regret that choice every time you pick up your giant bag and then again when you are reorganizing (once again) items for re-packing purposes.

2. You will always require more tissues than expected while saying goodbye to the grandparents.

3. You will always require more wet-wipes than expected while travelling with kids.

4. Definitely upgrade to the bulkhead seats for an extra 20 euros each on the overnight flight. Accept the tiny bottle of real champagne your husband offers just after take-off.

5. Humidity feels sweltering but is much more manageable if you remind yourself (and your children) that ‘water in the air’ is separate from the actual temperature (even though both temp and humidity are very, very high).

6. Travel day food choices are null and void. Get the extra large chocolate chip cookie in the airport.

7. Embrace the unexpected – the tiny hostel-like room with double bunk beds that you booked via a third-party site will actually turn out to be super fun and very memorable. And with a fabulous roof-top bar to boot.

We arrived in Papeete, Tahiti this morning!

It seemed like a day-long journey to get here… we rented a car to drive from Palm Desert to LAX on Wednesday which took a few hours but we wanted to leave quite early to be safe in case of highway stalls. Arrived at LAX with hours and hours to spare. Itched to reorganize bags and throw out half our belongings due to walking from terminal 2 to 6 thanks to a mis-understanding with the rental car shuttle driver. Checked in, worried the chicken salad croissant-wich the kids ate was going to give him salmonella (great news, it didn’t), people-watched. Boarded a GIANT FrenchBee plane with very leggy bulkhead seats and very chic flight attendant outfits. Spent an uncomfortable night trying to snatch snippets of sleep where I could; luckily at least Kieran had two full seats on which to stretch out and doze off.

It was pouring warm rain when we arrived in Tahiti but the air was packed with moisture and I soaked it up (literally and figuratively). Coming from the desert to this, I could feel my tissues drinking it in! It was still dark when we arrived and we were so tired we couldn’t think straight, so first notes of Tahiti are blurry. Luck of all luck, we were able to check into our hotel room early – 6 AM early, thank you, Resort Kon Tiki!! – and have a snooze before heading out to explore Papeete for the day and book our ferry tickets. Left a giant bag of items in the room thanks to luggage reorg #3. Rounded the day off with a delicious mai tai on the rooftop and some charcuterie. The baguettes, cheeses, butter, yogurt, and croissants here are TOP NOTCH!

Salut,

Caley

Huahine: January 12

Ia Orana! (Hello, in Tahitian).

Caught the three-hour Apetahi Express ferry from Papeete to Huahine early (6:30 AM). Thankfully the port was a very short 10 second walk across the street from the hotel! Super happy with weight of new bags as well as how they’re organized now. More innovations to come for the next repack, though! Every time we move from one location to the next I think about how it could all be just that much better, more organized, more easily accessed… Sean thinks I have gone overboard.

Bag Organization Counter

BC Ferries should take note – this one had excellent coffee, beautiful pastries and made-right-there baguette sandwiches. Both kids were a bit seasick from the deep swells of the crossing; nothing Gravol couldn’t quell. Will give it to them prior to the voyage next time.

White sand that you see in travel ads.

Huahine is all the shades of turquoise waters lapping up to white sand that you see in travel ads. The flowers are gorgeous – hibiscus, plumeria, ginger, bougainvillea and a hundred others I can’t name – and the hills are very, very jungly.

We spent the first day here swimming in the shallows, trying to find the marina, trying to find a cold drink for the kids, eating the most delicious mahi mahi steaks at the tiny “Tatie Gette” roadside cafe for lunch, buying groceries (so much Bon Maman jam!), and finally checking into our AirBnB around 3 PM. We are now lounging in our smallest outfits to beat the heat, applying aloe gel liberally (we dropped our bags off with five hours to kill before check-in and I forgot to grab the sunscreen for the daypack – EEK) and relaxing to the sound of the roosters next door. We’ll cook dinner here tonight and figure out what we want to do during our four days here.

Bon soir,

Caley

Post-script: Kieran thought we were saying “money money” when we ordered the fish for lunch. In most places, that would not be wrong, but seafood prices here are so low! A massive, perfectly grilled mahi mahi steak with rice was around $10 CDN.

Raiatea

Catching Up: January 19, 2024

Ia Orana. It’s been a bit since we posted – we didn’t have wifi at our Huahine home so in turn I wasn’t feeling too motivated to write. I’ve started dating the posts as this will likely keep happening! We’re now on Raiatea and it is even more dreamy than Huahine. Highlights of our time on Huahine:

  • Super decent rosé from the “Super Fare Nui” grocery store for cheap!
  • Free range cows munching their way past our house every morning and evening
  • Getting gradually more used to the heat, as well as the large gecko friend who arrived in our bathroom each evening (we made a truce in the last few days; I miss it now!)
  • Sweet breezes and wild downpours which lasted only minutes but which kept the temperature down
  • Daily afternoon swims at the beach followed by evening cocktails at the Huahine Yacht Club, and the amazing pink swordfish, octopus salad and raw tuna marinated in coconut milk we enjoyed there when we stayed for dinner
  • Seeing the V-shaped stone fish traps in the river and hunting for the sacred blue-eyed eels at Faie (to no avail) on our day trip around the island

We arrived on Raiatea on the 17th and luckily were able to check into our AirBnB right away. Our hosts, Eden and Maea, are the most lovely people – they drove us back to town to get groceries on day 1, took us on their boat over to the motu across the lagoon, have supplied us with fresh papaya from their tree, and bring us a giant fresh baguette every morning.

Sean has been cooking most nights since we arrived in FP. Last night was shrimp and veg in coconut curry with rice, featuring the island’s abundant, delicious, thin-skinned ginger. The kids are loving his spaghetti bolognese made with local pork sausage. And we are doing a lot of eggs, yogurt, cereal-type breakfasts. 

Lest I make out that all is perfect here in paradise: yesterday I had a really tough day, feeling like I’m wildly failing at parenting, homeschooling, fitness, being a motivated traveller and explorer of new things, and pretty much everything else. I’m feeling overwhelmed with the immensity of the year away. We haven’t quite hit our stride as a family who has no immediate schedules, plans, deadlines or activities. Sean’s been super committed to his workouts; me… less so. Spending time with each kid on schoolwork while all they want to do is either swim, snack or play games is not the most fun I’ve ever had. And as an introvert who needs a LOT of quiet alone time, I’m grappling with the guilt of taking myself away to read and recharge.

I know this will pass and we will figure out a routine that works (and then we’ll have to shift as we relocate!). But I’m also having a time trying to enjoy the moment, do what I need to do for me as well as the rest of the family, while also worrying whether I’m making the most of the place we’re in and the family time we have. Phew! Will update in a few days. I’m sure I will be in a better mood then.

Love C

Raiatea: Post 2

January 20, 2024

It was super wet today but my mood is certainly a lot better than it was for the past two days! We had planned last night that this morning we would head into town around 8:30 or 9 AM for a nice coffee at the café. Having a set plan for the morning is, I think, going to make all the difference. I awoke wanting to put on my workout gear (!!) and then we all headed to Uturoa. We enjoyed some very French bakery treats at le Patisserie Bon Apetahi and poked into some shops – I scored a lovely light swishy little dress, as that is ALL I want to wear in this humidity. 

Came home to enjoy the rest of a relaxing rainy day doing some school lessons, making a plan for our days in Bora Bora, playing badminton and boules in the little yard, and cooking a delicious dinner of roast chicken and stir-fried vegetables with ginger and soy sauce.

Schooling update: last week in Huahine I planned out a week’s worth of lessons for the kids, based on weekly emails sent by both kids’ teachers back home. Those emails go over what the kids are learning in different subjects and some ways that they are learning new concepts, so they are SUPER helpful for this first-time homeschool parent. Tomorrow I’ll make a new one for next week. We’re fairly loose with when we do lessons (e.g., no set time each day) but typically it has been mid-morning.

Any and all homeschooling tips very welcome! Mauruuru (thank you),

C

Bora Bora

January 24, 2024

Arrived on Bora Bora via the Apetahi Express ferry three days ago. What a gorgeous island! A massive crag rises up in the very middle and it’s always shrouded in mist; a stark contrast to the crystal turquoise water and white sand of the lagoon. I have taken far too many pictures of flowers – they are all so gorgeous!

We have rented a car for our time here as these islands aren’t the most walkable, especially with kids (no sidewalks, narrow windy roads with lots of cars and scooters, some snarly guard dogs at property edges). Day one saw us loading up on the grocery essentials, circumnavigating the island to get our bearings, having a lovely late afternoon swim at Matira Beach, and enjoying happy hour at the Bora Bora Beach Club. Just as I took a sip of my mai tai, I saw a huge ray swim by on the beach below, just inches from the shore – so incredible!

Yesterday we got moving early and headed to the Complexe Sportif Teriimaevarua which has an outdoor field, track, playground, tennis courts, boules courts (un boulodrome… just learned something new) and outdoor workout equipment (reminds me of the machines along Victoria’s Henderson chip trail). So good to finally be able to get a proper workout in. After coming home and showering, we got down to schoolwork and coffee, followed by souvenir shopping in town. Kieran ended up choosing a little wooden painted surfboard and Grace, to nobody’s surprise, chose a bracelet-making kit with Polynesian shells and little beads. That girl loves a craft kit. I picked up some Tahitian vanilla-infused brown sugar for my coffee. We ended the day with another beautiful Matira beach afternoon (more rays!) and happy hour at the beach club. 

Currently we’re having a lazy late afternoon after our AM workout, coffee and school, a beautifully delicious lunch at Bora Healthy, and haircuts at a tiny little coiffeur in Vaitape town. Our hairdresser spoke only a tiny bit of English and I speak only a tiny bit of French, but we ended up very happy and a whole lot of hair lighter!

Bora Bora

February 3

Writing about the remainder of French Polynesia from New Zealand! Have fallen behind a bit on writing, but here goes. Bora Bora was dreamy (mostly!), especially our splurge trip to one of the fancier resorts on a nearby motu (little island off the main island) for the last two days.

On the main island, we spent our time doing morning workouts at the sports complex, enjoying happy hours at the Beach Club, tons of swims at Matira, hanging out with our AirBnB pets, and exploring the lagoon in a little rented aluminum boat. We ended up renting the little 13’ Quintrex from La Plage Bora Bora twice – it was so much fun. Sean zipped us around to various areas to swim, snorkel, explore white sand beaches, check out scenery, and picnic. We swam with eagle rays, sting rays, and black-tip reef sharks, as well as tons of gorgeous colourful fishes. 

Speaking of sharks and rays, we also got a front row seat to see some swimming by from the deck at The St. James restaurant. What a gorgeous spot – literally right over the water, perfect sunset views, delicious food, and A PAGE OF CHAMPAGNES on the wine list!

Misadventure: Sean sat on an ant’s nest on the grass at the edge of Matira and got bitten on his side, which swelled up pretty alarmingly for the next three days. Ants have been the main pest here; not bad at all as long as you don’t sit on their nest or leave sugary food out! Actually speaking of pests, there are also big brown land crabs everywhere here. Not a bother to us at all, but you have to watch your step as they dig holes all over and you can trip in them. Also, kitchen garbage maggots were a VERY unwelcome surprise one morning while Sean was making coffee. Thank goodness the kitchen was in a separate space than our main living space! Ugh.

But onto the fancy part: we decided on a total splurge stay for our last two days in French Polynesia and found a “somewhat” deal (compared to other fancy resorts in the area!) at Le Bora Bora by Pearl Resorts. Although it was tempting, we decided not to stay in an overwater bungalow, but in a villa with little private plunge pool instead. It was so lovely to be in a space where we could all roam freely around after having been on the not-very-walkable other islands. The grounds were huge and very, very pretty – tropical bushes and palm trees and ponds full of water lilies and little bridges everywhere. We spent 95% of our time in the water: paddleboarding and snorkeling in the shallow lagoon water, diving for coins and practicing cannonballs in our little villa pool, and paddling around the main pool (and its swim-up bar at happy hour). We decided to forego schooling for those few days so it felt like a vacation from our trip!

We’ve now been in Auckland, NZ for a few days but bedtime awaits; stay tuned for our Auckland adventures soon!

Love C